Keep things simple, assure whomever it is that there is no rush. Music, music and more music. I played the same Fred Astaire CD in my car with the roof top down, over and over and over again ~ he LOVED it!!!
Get used to telling and retelling, hearing and rehearing ~ who cares ~ it's time shared.
Give foot rubs often.
I care(d) a total of 4 years for a male