I found my local hospice agencies very helpful in providing home care with aides coming in to care for my brother. They also found others in the community who had volunteered services in my home, such as massage and other personal comforts.
Seek the help with hospice to support you through the end of life journey. Listen to the patient and their wishes during this time. There was no hospice during my father's journey in the late seventies. Our family could have used the wonderful services of hospice at the time. Totally different experience when my sister passed in 2018. We worked with a wonderful hospice team that glided us to help my sister stay at home and be around family at her end of life journey.